Would you prefer to marry someone who saved themselves for marriage or would you need to "test drive" first?

17 Responses to Would you prefer to marry someone who saved themselves for marriage or would you need to "test drive" first?

1. justusmiangel says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   I really dont think it matter, but hey I am a female
2. Pin says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   Test drove both of my husbands (not at the same time, duh!)

   My first husband was a virgin when we met.

   My second husband was not a virgin when we met.

   Taht's all I'll say.
3. Hadley N says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   You know what, after being with so many, they all pretty much drive the same.

   It is how they love you (if they love you) that makes it special.

   (Oh gawd…I am sounding so Mormon…I need to go to bed.)
4. Moxie says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   If I really love someone and wanna spend the rest of my life with them then is doesn't matter if they want to save them self for marriage or not. Either way is fine with me, if their a virgin then I can just teach them…but I think I would rather someone with experience.
5. Lisa E says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   Last thing I'd want to deal with on my wedding night is uneducated fumbling, over eager, premature ejaculating klutz. What if the guy can't kiss? Do you spend your honeymoon trying to teach him that he's pushing his teeth against yours? How long is "taking too long to learn how"? Do you deal with a clumsy lover for 2 years? 5? I'd take the experienced lover over the virgin any day.
6. Da Ben Dan says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   I don't want any virgins.
7. Zaggy says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   Wouldn't it suck to find out on your wedding night that you and your mate are completely uncompatible sexually? I'd take at least one test lap
8. dancingpenguin101 says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   I think abstinence is unnecessary, unless for health reasons. However, I would much rather find my partner knows my pleasure spots before the honeymoon.
9. sydney77 says:

   June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

   I wouldn't mind. It's not the only thing a person has to offer.
10. ramitemporalis says:

    June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

    I'd prefer someone who has saved himself for marriage.
11. Liza p says:

    June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

    I'd rather know before I marry how my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life
12. Austin says:

    June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

    i want to marry someone who loves and respects me as much as i do them.
13. Iggy says:

    June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

    I don't think I'd be able to marry someone who had purposely saved themselves for marriage, because those kinds of people tend to be quite conservative on a lot of other issues as well. I have a very liberal point of view about most things, and I figure if you love and trust the person and you are mature enough, then marriage shouldn't be a prerequisite to sex. I think that in the time when everyone considered pre-marital sex a sin, it was because children would get married as soon as they hit puberty (which was around 14-16), so they would have little or no opportunity to have sex before marriage, because they were not physically mature enough. If they did have sex before marriage, it would be because they had been molested, which is a sin and a crime by anyone's reckoning. These days, kids are hitting puberty much younger, sometimes as early as 11 or less, and usually not getting married until their 20s-30s. I think 20 years is a long time to remain celibate, and it's just kind of unreasonable to demand that everyone do that, especially in this day and age with all the sex in the media and everything. I'm not saying it's impossible, just unlikely. I have no problem with virgins or non-virgins. If I can love and trust them and they're half-decent in bed, why does it matter if they've had sex before?
14. san_mateo_guy says:

    June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

    I would be happy with either. New experiences in both people
15. carora13 says:

    June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

    I think sexual compatibility is a factor in if the relationship has a snowball's chance in hell of working, so I think a test drive or two would probably be beneficial.
16. boblol198 says:

    June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

    I think the test drive is a good option every time
17. gonecrazybacksooninky says:

    June 28, 2008 at 10:01 am

    I do not really think it matters. They may wonder someday what it would be like to be with other people.